By Lizzie @ What Makes My Kid Cry Today
Real Life. Real Laughs. Real Jesus.
What made my kid cry today?
I told him to put on socks.
What made me cry today?
The sock situation.
The laundry pile.
The fact that no one seems to hear my voice unless I whisper āice creamā from across the house.
Itās Monday.
Iām tired.
Iāve already reheated my coffee twice.
And I yelled this morning.
Not because I wanted to.
Not because Iām a terrible mom.
But because I asked four times and then stepped on a piece of cereal so sharp I thought I was going to need stitches.
š„ The Meltdown
It wasnāt pretty.
There were shoes being launched across the room (not by meāthis time).
There were tears.
And at one point, I dramatically muttered, āIām doing everything for everyone all the time and no one even notices!ā
Classic.
Textbook.
Monday.
š The Grace
But hereās what happened after the meltdown:
My toddler climbed on my lap and wiped my tears with his entire fist.
(Effectively smearing banana on my cheek, but stillāhis heart was in it.)
My older kid said, āSorry for not listening.ā
My middle one just hugged me without words.
It wasnāt perfect, but it was grace.
⨠Faith Reminder:
Sometimes I think God must be so disappointed in my mom moments.
The yelling.
The eye rolls.
The sighs when someone needs something again.
But Heās not shocked by my meltdowns.
He doesnāt back away.
He leans in.
āThe Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.ā
ā Psalm 34:18
Even when that spirit is crushed by crusty socks and scattered Goldfish crackers.
š So hereās your reminder, mama:
If you melted down today?
Youāre still a good mom.
Youāre still called.
Youāre still covered in grace.
Your meltdown doesnāt disqualify your mission.
Youāre just human.
And God knows it.

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