• ✨ Devotional: When the Morning Goes Sideways

    By Lizzie @ What Makes My Kid Cry Today

    Real Life. Real Laughs. Real Jesus.

    You know the mornings I’m talking about.

    The ones where:

    The cereal spills. The toddler cries because the banana “broke.” You snap before 8 a.m. And everyone leaves the house just a little more disheveled than you’d hoped—including you.

    You tried to start with prayer.

    You wanted to be patient.

    You even prepped the night before.

    But then… everything went sideways.

    📖 Scripture for the Sideways Start:

    “Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed,

    for His compassions never fail.

    They are new every morning;

    great is Your faithfulness.”

    — Lamentations 3:22–23

    💭 Reflection:

    Isn’t it wild that God’s mercy is new every morning…

    even when that morning is an actual train wreck?

    He doesn’t say:

    “New mercies… but only if you handle things well.”

    “New mercies… unless you yelled at your kids.”

    “New mercies… but not after spilled milk and sibling meltdowns.”

    Nope.

    He says “new every morning.”

    Period.

    Even when your house is loud.

    Even when your hair is unwashed.

    Even when you feel like you’re already behind before the clock hits 9:00 a.m.

    🫶 Grace for the Morning Mess

    You don’t have to fix the whole day to receive God’s grace.

    You don’t have to go back in time and parent perfectly.

    You just have to pause—right here in the chaos—and whisper:

    “Jesus, I need You. Take this sideways morning and steady me.”

    And He will.

    🙏 A Simple Prayer:

    Lord,

    This morning didn’t go the way I wanted.

    I was short-tempered, overwhelmed, and already running behind.

    But You aren’t shaken.

    Thank You that Your mercies are new right now.

    Reset my heart.

    Fill me with grace.

    And help me parent today from a place of peace instead of pressure.

    Amen.

    🌅 Final Thought:

    The morning might’ve gone sideways,

    but your whole day doesn’t have to.

    Breathe.

    Reset.

    Receive mercy.

    And move forward—one sock, one sip of coffee, one whispered prayer at a time.

    You’ve got this, Mama.

    Not because you’re perfect—but because He is faithful.

  • Mom Mythbusters: “Good Moms Always Enjoy Their Kids

    There’s this myth floating around that says:

    “If you’re a good mom, you’ll enjoy every moment with your kids.”

    I don’t know who started this lie—maybe a magazine, a grandma with selective memory, or someone who’s never stepped on a LEGO barefoot. But let me be clear:

    This is not biblical. This is not healthy. And this is not real life.

    Because sometimes?

    I don’t enjoy the whining.

    I don’t enjoy the spilled juice.

    I don’t enjoy repeating myself for the 14th time in the span of 3 minutes while someone cries because their banana is too “banana-y.”

    That doesn’t make me a bad mom.

    It makes me human.

    What Scripture Actually Says

    You know what God does say about motherhood?

    “Love is patient, love is kind…” (1 Corinthians 13:4)

    He never says:

    “Love is cheerful while folding laundry at 10 p.m.”

    Or

    “Love smiles while breaking up the 8th fight before noon.”

    God calls us to love—yes.

    But He never expects us to enjoy every single second.

    Even Jesus needed to step away from the crowds. Even He got tired.

    If the Savior of the world needed a break, I promise—it’s okay if you do too.

    Here’s the Truth:

    You can be a good mom and still:

    Need space Feel touched out Not enjoy pretend play today Long for bedtime with holy anticipation Wonder why your child is sobbing over socks

    Enjoying motherhood and enduring it are both part of the journey.

    It doesn’t mean you’re failing—it means you’re faithful.

    Grace Over Guilt

    So if today wasn’t fun, if you felt more frazzled than festive, if you whispered “Lord, help me” more than “thank You, Lord”…

    You’re not disqualified from being a good mom.

    You’re not broken.

    You’re not failing.

    You’re just living in the real, raw middle of motherhood.

    And God meets you there. Every single time.

    The Takeaway:

    You don’t have to enjoy every moment to be a good mom.

    You just have to keep showing up.

    And that? That’s holy.

    With grace (and a second cup of coffee),

    Lizzie

    Myth-Busting Mama, Faith-Filled Mess, and Currently Ignoring the Laundry Again

  • 💛 You Don’t Have to Hustle for Grace

    Some days feel like a sprint that never ends. The laundry piles up faster than I can fold it, the house sounds like a zoo on free admission day, and my to-do list just laughs at me from the counter.

    I tell myself, “If I just try a little harder, I’ll catch up.”

    But somehow, no matter how much I do, there’s always more waiting.

    And that’s when God whispers to my heart:

    You don’t have to hustle for grace.

    The Trap of “Doing Enough”

    As moms, as wives, as women—we wear so many hats that it’s easy to believe our value is tied to how well we juggle them. If the kids are happy, the meals are homemade, the house is clean, and the schedule runs smoothly, then we can rest.

    But grace doesn’t work that way.

    Ephesians 2:8–9 says:

    “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast.”

    Grace isn’t earned through hustle, performance, or perfection. It’s received through faith and given freely by a God who loves us even when we’re running on empty.

    The Moment It Clicked

    One evening, I sat surrounded by toys, crumbs, and chaos. I was exhausted—physically, emotionally, spiritually. And then one of my boys came up, put his little head on my shoulder, and just stayed there.

    No words. No requests. Just closeness.

    And that’s when I realized—this is what God wants from me, too.

    He doesn’t need my constant motion.

    He just wants my presence.

    Resting in Grace

    When we stop hustling to earn love and start resting in the grace that’s already ours, everything shifts. The pressure fades. The striving quiets. And peace starts to take root where exhaustion once lived.

    Psalm 46:10 says, “Be still, and know that I am God.”

    Not “be perfect,” not “do more,” just be still.

    Grace meets us right where we are—in the mess, in the noise, in the middle of it all.

    A Gentle Reminder

    So, if today feels like too much—if you’re tired, overwhelmed, or questioning whether you’re enough—breathe.

    You don’t have to hustle for grace.

    You don’t have to earn God’s love.

    You already have it.

    🎧 Listen to the full devotional episode here:

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